A sanctuary for transformation, rooted in presence, truth, and deep connection.
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Welcome,
Hello,
I’m Wilder
Founder. Creative. Designer. Artist. World Traveler.
I facilitate spaces for courageous seekers online, in person, and in the in-between where beauty, belonging, and transformation can breathe.
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You are not here to survive.
You are here to feel, to create, to come alive—again and again.
In a world moving faster than our bodies can process, it’s easy to feel untethered—overwhelmed by chaos, unsure of what’s real, and disconnected from our inner wisdom. Cultivating Aliveness is a space to come home to yourself. To reawaken your body’s intelligence. To make meaning of your life’s turning points. To metabolize the heavy, and move toward lightness.
We are an energy innovation lab—part school, part sanctuary, part portal.
Here, we teach people how to thrive amidst uncertainty, ground in their power, and live with presence, pleasure, and purpose.
Founded by Wilder Akasha Grace and Loyal, Cultivating Aliveness brings together deep somatic wisdom, tantric teaching, ritual design, and energy healing to support individuals, couples, and communities on the path of transformation.
Aliveness is not a spark you wait for. It’s a way of being you choose and cultivate.
Our Mission
To help people live more connected, embodied, and intentional lives—not by escaping their past, but by reclaiming their place within it.
We support individuals, couples, and groups to move through transition, release inherited expectations, and cultivate lives that feel more alive, intimate, and honest.
Our Guiding Beliefs
You are not broken.
You are becoming.
You don’t have to choose between honoring others' expectations of you and honoring yourself.
The body holds wisdom your mind has forgotten.
Love can deepen, even in long-term relationships.
Aliveness is your compass. Follow it.
Guided experiences that help you reconnect with your essence, rewrite old stories, and build a life that feels truly yours.
💫 Including Matriarch, Sensing, coaching, intensives, retreats and more.
We design and hold intentional spaces for transformation—both personal and organizational—rooted in psychological safety, somatic wisdom, and experiential learning.
Our signature program was created to guide that return.
Matriarch is a space where women—and those in culturally complex relationships—can soften out of survival mode and reclaim the fullness of who they are.
This is not a quick fix.
Let’s Begin Together
It’s a return to yourself—with tenderness, structure, and support.
